David says: I dreamed I was following my boyfriend as
he walked down the road. He didn’t know that I was following him,
more like I was stalking him for some reason. In my dream, I thought
he was cheating on me, so I decided to follow him. He turned around
a few times as I followed, but each time he did I would hide behind a parked
car. After a few blocks, I saw him meeting with some guy. I
hid behind a car and watched. From my position, I couldn’t see the
other guy’s face, but I could see my boyfriend’s face and he was
happy. When I thought about the dream, I expected to feel guilty about
dreaming that he was cheating on me but instead I was just happy for him.
Eric says: One of the most frequent dreams is the “chase”
dream. Because it is so popular, it can mean many things, but if we
look at the other symbols we can start to see a pattern. I have
found many times when dreamers see someone in the dream, that person represents
an aspect of the dreamer himself. In
this case, the boyfriend you thought was cheating may represent a fear that you
yourself may cheat. You were following him, trying to catch up to
him or “catch yourself” before you do something you
regret. The street represents your life path. I
wish you would have included more details, but they are fairly obvious so I am
sure you will know what symbols like bumps in the road, crossroads or any roadwork
you saw in your dream meant. It sounds like your dream contained a very
straight forward, but long street. I would think in the waking
world, you and your boyfriend have been together for a while. Cars
represent the way we travel. Rather than quickly speeding down the street
in a car, you follow someone slowly, on foot, hiding behind parked cars as you
go. Parked cars normally show that your effort should be placed
elsewhere, or a fruitless endeavor.
All in all, I would wonder if after being with your boyfriend
for a long while, you did something that made you feel guilty. Not
anything major, since the cheating in your dream is only a suspicion and not a
wish to pursue more. Think of the feelings you listed associated
with your dream: sneaking, hiding, feeling guilty but ultimately feeling
happy. In your dream, you boyfriend’s
feelings are more straightforward; he is simply happy. Don’t be so hard on yourself. As
you saw, your boyfriend seemed to be happy and in turn you felt happy that he
was happy. In the end you know that happiness is part of your
relationship.
From the Tarot, I first drew the Nine of Swords, that’s
pretty obvious as the nightmare card. I
next drew the Chariot and the Page of Cups symbolizing the need to stick
forward to your current path and emotional connection normally between two
people with a difference in age.
David says: I’m glad this is anonymous. I
was out with friends earlier in the week and drunkenly kissed a guy in the
bar. It meant nothing but when I woke up the next day I felt really
stupid. It wasn’t long after that I started to worry that my
boyfriend was cheating on me. I guess I thought if it was so easy
and available for me, it would be for him as well. I understand that
I shouldn’t worry so much and I am glad that I am happy with him. The rest of what you said was pretty accurate
too.
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